21 July 2008

A Woman Scorned

Well, it looks like I'm not moving to Texas after all. The guy who, just a few weeks ago, told me, "I'm in this for the long haul," decided that I'm not getting my life together quickly enough for his liking, so instead of trying to work out a solution, he's given up. I'm angry... really angry. Here's a guy who troubleshoots problems for a living, but when it comes to relationships, he keeps silent about problems and then uses them as excuses to walk away. He did the same thing last year, and I really thought that this time would be different.

I know this post isn't polite or kind, and I don't care. I have a right to be angry about the way he's treated me, and I'm really sick of being the nice girl.

Time to go cry and hit things and wish I'd never met him.


geeky Heather said...


That stinks.

Sunflowerfairy said...



Divine Bird said...

Augh!! :( This is not the time for polite and kind. Go break something. *multiple hugs*

Alli Kat said...


MLJ1954 said...


I am so so sorry. Crying is good. Hitting is good too as long as it is a pillow or a punching bag. So tape his pic to the pillow and punch the living daylights out of it.

Take care of yourself.

Anonymous said...

don't sweat the sweaterboy. . .he has a long history of collecting skeins of women through his blog and then slowly frogging them. It's kind of sad he needs all those cheerleaders to make him feel good about himself.

lovemybordercollies said...

And how did he expect you to get your life together when you where anticipating a move like that? CT to TX is a long way, and if he expected you to accomplish that sort of life ALTERING transition in an organized manor, he's crazy (and stupid, frankly). I moved from CT to VA (less that 1/3 the distance you would have gone) and then back, both times with the agility and grace of a three-legged camel wearing a blindfold. Don't worry. Your friends are here for you, and things will get better. Lots of love. xoxo